The waiting....

The journey of TTC teaches me an important lesson that is patience. Beside preparing your body for conceiving and BD on the right days next will be waiting and waiting. You cannot be anxious as it will affect your body. It is not easy not to be anxious especially when you are TTC-ing, a lot women especially those ever conceived before are not able to do so. It's easy to say "I am not nervous or anxious about it" but the fact is subconsciously our mind is actually always thinking about it.

Now, i am on the way for IVF and the main protocol of this procedure is WAITING too. I have to wait for my appointments, waiting for the test result, wait for AF to come and wait for the next process that the doc planned for you. Like now I am waiting for my test result to determine am I qualify to go for the program. What I can do is only wait and pray for the hardest that my result will be positive.

On the side note of waiting, I realise a lot people disapprove IVF. I am not afraid to tell people I am going for IVF, as I feel it is not a shame thing I am doing. In fact I am very proud of myself for decided to try IVF. A lot people told me it is not an easy procedure and always ask me am I scare. And recently I get to know a lot couples in Singapore have a negative thinking for IVF, I seriously don't know why and hope to find out the reason. A couple of ladies I spoke to say they are not mentally prepare and few will say they can't afford and what most disappointing is few give me an impression it is a shame to go for IVF. What about men? Why men rejecting IVF? Is it because not wanting to see their wives suffer?